Leather, lace or silk?
DUH…. leather…

Do you subscribe (or regularly buy) to any “dirty” magazines? Which ones?
Nope

Have you ever had sex in water (tub/pool/lake/ocean)?
Yep. First three… not in ocean yet…

The three words that best describe you in bed are ____, ____, and ____. Three words that best describe your most recent partner in bed are ____, ____, and ____.
me – aggressive, submissive, willing
partners – aggressive, torcherous, eager

Did you lose your virginity as an impetuous youth, “to prove that you loved” him/her, because of a romantic gesture, a newly wed or other (please describe because I can’t think of what an “other” might be)?
For the fun of it. SHEESH. What better way?

1. What’s the sexiest type of underwear?
Jock

2. Would you/have you ever paid money for sex?
Yes… been paid that is.

3. Is facial/body hair sexy or no? (Moustache, chest, etc. for men, and underarms/legs for women.) Or do you frankly not care?
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES… ooo, and YEP!!! That is a must have listed item on the guy(s). Few exceptions, but LOVE the fur.

4. What is the strangest thing you’ve ever seen featured in pornography?
Hetero sex.

5. What’s worse, not enough sex or too much? Is there such a thing as “too much”?
Not enough is worse. Nope, not a thing as “too much”.

I have been asked a few times to describe what it means to be a wolf pup, or wolf instead of dog. So, I thought it easiest for those who ask in the future to point them here.

Alright, lets start at the difference in my eye of wolf and dog. Dog’s will bark/woof, no howling, and little growling. Wolf, lots of growling, little to no barking/woofing, and howl (as with regular wolf’s) to rally the troops, or to warn those around them of their territory(Handler(s)/Owner(s), or other wolfpup(s)/pup(s) in the family)and to back off, like normal wolf’s do for land. Another prime factor would be that no matter how “submissive”, or “domesticated” the wolf is, there still is a wild side to them, and need a different type of handling as wolf’s are also more agressive. Collars, most dog pups will jump into them quickly, wolf’s tend to try to shake them off, and have to get used to it. I am also a protective wolf, or peacekeepers, which means that we look out for our pack (friends/Handler(s)/Owner(s)/wolfpup(s)/pup(s)), and defend them if needed.

What I enjoy of being wolfpup, as for what it means to be. I have a major weakness when someone rubs the back of my head and even scratching behind my ears. I go further into pup mode when someone does that. It seems to calm my mind a bit. I tend to do that same thing a dog pup does, is further into pup mode my hands fist up or curl up like paws. It’s also a great thing to service and please the Handler(s)/Owner(s), and keep them happy. As for a collar, wearing one for me is nice, gives a sense of belonging to a Handler(s)/Owner(s), but I tend to try to remove it quickly, guess it is that wild side. The Handler(s)/Owner(s) will need to learn persistence to keep me into a collar (as with most wolf’s).

Does the carpet match the drapes?
Color wise, yes. Length, near enough. Buzzed head, trimmed a bit below, and shaved hangers.

Have you ever used personal information about someone to blackmail them?
Nope

What is your favorite thing to lick?
Gay man… hmmm, let me see. Washington monument? Banana? What you think silly… trouser snake!!!

Have you ever had sex in a place of worship? (i.e., church, temple, mosque, etc.)
Sure, did.

If you watch video porn, do you buy it in a store, from a catalog, online, or download it? LINK!!!
E – all of the above

Bonus (as in optional): How often, if ever, do you “fake it?”
Um, sorry, can’t, can’t spit that much that fast…. I think a bottle of Elmer’s Glue would be a bit suspicious. So, no, I don’t fake it.

If you were to face the Wizard of Oz, would you want more courage, more brains, or more heart?
The damn bloody Ruby slippers.. those are worth a fortune..

Have you ever gone to court for anything? What for?
Yes, traffic ticket

What was the last thing you did that you previously told yourself you wouldn’t do?
Breathe

Did you ever have a summer fling while on vacation?
Nope, unless you count sex as a fling, then many many many… etc times

Have you ever done anything sexual with someone who’s name you never knew?
Yep

Bonus (as in optional): What is the best way to mend a broken heart?
Bubblegum and duck tape

What is the meanest thing you’ve ever done/said to a lover/loved one?
It’s over

Have you ever had sex on an elevator?
Fooled around but not full blown sex.

Have you ever lied about a rash and said it was a birthmark? OR Have you ever lied about a birthmark and said it was a rash?
No, I tell it like it is. What you see is what you get.

Have you ever had sex on a beach or in the water at a beach/pool?
Yea, on the beach, and yes to in water as well. Good night that was.

How old are you? How old do you feel? =P
35; 10,001 years older than sand.

Have you or your partner been injured so badly during sex that you/they had to go to the hospital?
Nope, close to it though, I got the scars to prove that one.

Have you been to a strip club or “titty bar”? (Hooters does NOT count.) If so, did you get a lap dance?
Yea, been to one. Hated every minute of it, and no lap dance. Would not have done anything for me anyway.

Should guys wear pink?
Hmm, NO. Just not a color on a straight or a gay man should wear.

Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?
Both, depends on the guy. Majority of the time, closed, like to feel the kiss without distractions. Sometimes open to look into their eyes.

What is the first “non-physical” feature you tend to notice about a person you find attractive?
Mannerisms, the way they carry themselves.

Have you ever showered with someone of the opposite sex?
Nope. No real need to do something like that.

Would you rather receive amazing oral sex or have amazing sex?
Loaded question. Some consider oral as sex, not separate. So amazing sex and amazing oral would be the same thing… so, my answer . . . 42.

Bonus (as in optional): If you could say anything you wanted anonymously to anyone, without identifying that person, what would you say?
WAKE UP!!!

1. When you orgasm, do you hold your breath?
Don’t pay attention to that. So, can not tell ya.

2. Have you ever had sex or played around with a celebrity?
Yes. One famous singer and one porn star.

3. Do you think prostitution should be legal? Why or why not?
Yes, make them pay taxes like the rest of us.

4. How do you masturbate? Do you romance yourself? Get straight to the point? Read erotic material?
How – with my hand; romance – yea, I give myself flowers before hand (seriously – no); To the point – sometimes, other times play with a few toys; Read – what is this reading you speak of? (serious – no reading material)

5. Which gives you the most pleasure – intercourse, masturbating for/with your partner, being masturbated by your partner.
E – none of the above. I prefer to masturbate partner, if they are happy, then I am fine. They could orgasm multiple times before I do.

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever had a crush on a relative?
Nope

What was your first job?
Concession Stand help at a Drive-In

When did you go to your first funeral?
At 13, my cousin’s funeral.

What is the sexiest word in the English dictionary?
*pulls out the book and starts flipping through the pages*

Are you left handed or right handed? Which direction does the top of your head lean when you kiss on the lips?
Mainly Right handed, but use both nearly equal. Lean to the right.

Males: Which way do you dress?
Up and to the right a bit.

1. Have you ever used foods in your sexual activities (ie; whipped cream, syrup, popsicles) and how did you use them?
Nope.

2. If your SO asked you to get them off using only your toes – would you do it and how?
Yes, would do it. HOW??? With my toes silly.

3. Would you ever participate in an orgy? Have you?
Would – Yes
Have – Yes, many a time.

4. What can a lover do to turn you on instantly?
Rub/pet the back of my head, or in pup terms, scratch behind my ears..

5. Describe your favorite piece of lingerie or undergarments on yourself or your mate. (PICS PLEASE!!!)
Me – collar
Mate – Nothing but black work/combat boots and white socks, or harness boots with white socks, or Cop boots, etc … basically black boots with white socks.

1. What sight, sound, smell, object or whatever most remind you of a special someone?
Depends on the someone, sometimes it’s more of memory, than any trigger.

2. Favourite body part/parts of the opposite (or same) sex?
Nice tone/defined chest/torso, something to lay my head on while getting petted, and furry is also a major plus

3. Do you prefer to give or receive?
Depends on what the other on this, whatever makes them happy.

4. One night stands- What’s the protocol? Stay the night or get the hell outta there?
Depends on my mood, or their mood, and who’s place.

5. What is the strangest place you’ve had sex?
A bed.

Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. Ideal amount of sex per week?
Depends on the week of work, and the other items have planned. But to say a number, etc… hmmm…
I say 4-6 times a week, weekends being more ideal, longer sessions that way.

2. Ever had an online affair?
Does smack talking while on a Ventrilo server count?

3. Are you a member of the mile high club?
No, maybe one day.

4. Are you predjudice against any particular group of people?
Yea, Humans.

5. What constitutes bad sex?
Hmmm, interesting question . . .

Bonus (as in optional): Can females ejaculate?
Have no idea, and if I knew, I be going to therapy for it..

PS – yes, I can do that in the picture on the TMI site.. 

Many people have a problem with the whole Leather/BDSM/Fetish thing. Some seem to not like it because it is “not normal”, and others love it cause of that. There are what we call the Hard Core ones, “Weekend Warrior’s”, and some are now calling the non-BDSM crowd, Muggles (yes after the Harry Potter writer coined it for normal humans with no magic ability).

The Hard Core ones, are the ones that can do it 24/7 and not get tired of it. Sometimes it’s a Dominatrix for higher, or a Master/Slave type thing, that the couple at home may end up going from shirt and tie from work, and coming home putting on leather/rubber/etc, and getting into the “role” of it. These are most times the Title holders for the leather bars, and such that continue to do things for the community they are in, be it the gay or straight.

Weekend Warriors, these are the ones that either are fun to play with on the weekend, or scare them half to death (from a Hard Core point of view). They are usually the ones, that wear leather or rubber just because it looks or feels “kool”. They don’t really get into any of the school yard activities such as whipping, bondage, pupplay, etc. They just walk around and think they belong.

Muggles, well, lets just say, seeing a cow on the side of the road makes them a bit nervous. And nothing but “vanilla” sex (without playing with leather/rubber etc), is all they do.

And before you ask, yes, I am Hard Core.

Now, the bad part of this life is the fact that most people will either shun you or look at you sideways cause of it. This is why most stay behind the closet door, and not let people know what is going on. Straight people have it easier due to they only having one door to open. Gay’s on the other hand have 2 or more to open. My case 3, one for being Gay, one for being part of the Leather community, and one for being a pup. Yes, even the gay community you have those Muggles, that look at you strange. There are more Weekend Warriors in the gay side, due to the Gym Rats liking the way they look in a leather vest.

Take the case of a friend of mine (whos linked in my Blogroll), he and I have known each other for nearly 7 years and he just came out to me about being a sub (submissive). And he did not have to come out about being straight, I already knew that. He already knew I was gay, but I told him I was sub and a Dom, he was nearly floored. I told him, “what, the leather and the fact about me going to IML did not give it away?” But, I mean even being friends for that long, it still took him a while to tell me this. Read his blog, he just rediscovering himself with the help of his wife. Along with his wife learning the Domme role of things.

Doors, all need to be opened at sometime or another. Be kind when someone tells you that they like to be tied up and spanked for fun. It’s just another part of this little divers world. As they say, it takes all kinds.