Man time fly’s it seems. Little over a week since last post, and that was a update after nearly 3 weeks. And I used to do this nearly daily.
Well first off, Frank and I are still hanging out with each other. I enjoy his company, and he makes me happy when I am around him. We chat online while at work here and there in between what we are working on. Even at night when we don’t go out for dinner or something, we chat online. Now I know I been working on not being so “needy” and other things as well. I do tend to get over protective or as many would consider jealous sometimes, but I am working that as well. Frank and I spent part of the weekend together again. He had plans for Friday night so we got together on Saturday. I help move some stuff from his Ex’s place to his, then he had some volunteer work to do in the evening so I went home and was napping and playing PS2.
The encounter with his Ex was very interesting. I found to hate him nearly instantly, not cause he was Frank’s Ex, cause he was very Fire Leo. Very demanding, very controlling, etc etc. I did get protective (guess what it’s my job) of Frank while moving some of the heavier items due to his back not being in greatest shape. The way his Ex was barking orders and such to Frank, I got very irritated by it. I mean they have not screwed in many years and he still treating him like they were together. Frank said he’s a good guy otherwise, and that maybe true, but just the way he treated Frank I did not like at all. After things were moved we went for food, and his Ex said something about since they were going to be in Dallas the end of the month they would go out for dinner, and such. I was sitting next to Frank and I just took a bite of food and pushed my leg into Franks a bit when he was saying that. His Ex just kept talking nearly all the time we ate. I just watched the people and ate.
Frank got done with his volunteer work nearly 11pm, and I went over to his place. Sunday was interesting, his Ex’s said something while they were at the volunteer thing about his new boyfriend being very protective, and Frank replied that we were just having fun and not classified as BF’s as of yet. After Frank told me this, I told him, to make the whole BF talk short, just throw a collar on me. OK, explanation on this for those scratching their heads. Basically, if Frank would like to take it to that step, and classify us as BF’s that he would just need to put a collar on me with a name. Granted he said something about the Toto collar, and I told him, if that is the name he wants to call his pup, then it can be that. The Toto collar is for the costume for Dallas at end of this month when we go down. So, if Frank wants to take this to the next step, he just has to present me with a collar that I could wear nearly all the time. Be it a day collar, or a small chain collar. He can even have actual dog tag attached to it with the name he wants to call this pup. Yes, I am a wolf not a dog, but the collar shows others that I am owned by someone else. Not like this pup has been playing since Frank came along. For some reason I stopped playing about 5 weeks ago, he has been the only one I have played with. Even when he was out of town and he said something about the pup going out to play, I tentatively had plans but decided against it. Now, those who read the blog before the re-vamp, know, I let the other decide on where they want to take things. Would I like to go to the next level with Frank, sure, would not mind at all. Could I remain as we are, just having fun, or as some put it Friends with benefits, sure.
Some people might think that I giving him a gift 2 weeks into it would be a bad move. Well, I was out with my Mother and niece and saw that there were a lot of stuff on clearance for Transformers, and thought of Frank and what he said about Bubblebee. Frank being the gamer/geek he is, wanted a transformable Bubblebee for his birthday and his bother got him the statue of him instead. Well, seeing the stuff marked down, I looked around for a transformable one for him. I found this one that not only was transformable but had sounds, moved and was a nice unit. And saw it was marked down 60%, I thought what the hell, he’ll either kill me, or never speak to me again, or at least I get a nice petting out of the deal… Could I have bought it and set it in the closet and waited to give it to him, sure. But I am not like that. It was more of a friendly “hey they really wanted this and I found it for them, I’ll pick it up” kind of a thing, plus I thought it would make him happy. Which, I come to find out it was the one he was going to buy for himself but held off for a bit due to other things going to need replaced. So, yea, made him happy.
Now the Dallas trip is 2 weeks away and I really need to get on this diet, maybe hit the gym (since I am paying for it) to kind of look good for Frank while we are down there.
OK, enough of my ranting, back to work I go…
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