Well, the fur idea was good, but not had a chance to go to the fabric store. Frank and I were chatting and he came up with another idea. Chaps, leather tank, collar, and basically go “Yeah I am Toto damnit, what have you got to say about it?”. I kind of like that idea better than the fur. A Toto gone wild type.

Now if that tail comes in, that would be a fur costume.

OK, to explain the tail. Both of us thought it a interesting idea to get one of those Puppy tails that have that are also butt plugs. I could put a hold in a pair of shorts and walk around with the tail in. Get a few reactions that way. And Frank, being the sweetheart he is, ordered a Fox tail, look more like a real tail, and more wolf like… Got it in black with a small bit of white on the tip of it.

So, doing a pair of black shorts with chaps, leather tank, and collar on with the tail… I think we be the talk of the party. Or at least get about 500 pictures taken, and I have mixed about that as is.

For those who know me, I do not like to have my picture taken. I can be behind the camera all day long without a care. But in front of it.. ICK… 
Now, to find a pair of dog ears to wear as well. Frank wants ears, have to find them in the next day or so.

Well, back to work I go…

*Lick*

This pup has been a bit lazy, and hurting lately. Over the weekend, I had to work (woot OT), and after that Frank and I walked about the city. After a bit my back started to hurt a bit, and with the rain, my sinus’ have been hurting for nearly a week. So, we kind of stayed in bed rest of Saturday, and most of Sunday. But then again on Saturday Frank tripped and hurt his back, but then again, he has back problems anyway.

Sunday we took a trip to get a wig for him for his costume for Saturday night, he’s doing Dorothy, and I will be Toto. We are still changing our minds on what to do for Toto, but one thing is clear, I’ll have a leather collar with Toto on it for the party. Something was said about getting fake fur and wrapping up my arms and legs, and we saw a fabric store with some on Saturday after I got out of work, and it was going out of business. I’ll prob stop this week to pick some up.

Not doing good on the diet, nor got to the gym, and we leave on Friday morning for Dallas. Guess I will have to start in big time when we get back next week.

OK, lets see here, Frank and I spent another weekend together, well mostly that is. On Sunday we headed to the airport to pick up his replacement for work. Since he is moving to a different position, a former co-worker of his from Dallas got his position. Let’s just say, they are the type that get into trouble with the other, in a good way. They being friends helps things. She is a riot though. We took her to her the hotel then was going to get something to eat. Frank called his ex to join us. It was interesting time at the table while we were eating. The desert was great, one of those you have to order with your main food cause it takes about 30 minutes to make. Franks replacement, lets call her Bev, was fun to talk to. When we were waiting about 15 minutes after we ate for the desert, the waiter came over and said it would be another 5 minutes. After the 5 minutes Bev was going “I want my desert, it’s been over 5 minutes”, kind of thing. She was doing it in a joking/serious manner. But it came a few minutes after that and she was happy to eat. So, now Frank will be getting into “trouble” at work with her… this can be fun.

Not doing that good on my diet or not hit the gym this week, prob will try for next week at least.

Man time fly’s it seems. Little over a week since last post, and that was a update after nearly 3 weeks. And I used to do this nearly daily.

Well first off, Frank and I are still hanging out with each other. I enjoy his company, and he makes me happy when I am around him. We chat online while at work here and there in between what we are working on. Even at night when we don’t go out for dinner or something, we chat online. Now I know I been working on not being so “needy” and other things as well. I do tend to get over protective or as many would consider jealous sometimes, but I am working that as well. Frank and I spent part of the weekend together again. He had plans for Friday night so we got together on Saturday. I help move some stuff from his Ex’s place to his, then he had some volunteer work to do in the evening so I went home and was napping and playing PS2.

The encounter with his Ex was very interesting. I found to hate him nearly instantly, not cause he was Frank’s Ex, cause he was very Fire Leo. Very demanding, very controlling, etc etc. I did get protective (guess what it’s my job) of Frank while moving some of the heavier items due to his back not being in greatest shape. The way his Ex was barking orders and such to Frank, I got very irritated by it. I mean they have not screwed in many years and he still treating him like they were together. Frank said he’s a good guy otherwise, and that maybe true, but just the way he treated Frank I did not like at all. After things were moved we went for food, and his Ex said something about since they were going to be in Dallas the end of the month they would go out for dinner, and such. I was sitting next to Frank and I just took a bite of food and pushed my leg into Franks a bit when he was saying that. His Ex just kept talking nearly all the time we ate. I just watched the people and ate.

Frank got done with his volunteer work nearly 11pm, and I went over to his place. Sunday was interesting, his Ex’s said something while they were at the volunteer thing about his new boyfriend being very protective, and Frank replied that we were just having fun and not classified as BF’s as of yet. After Frank told me this, I told him, to make the whole BF talk short, just throw a collar on me. OK, explanation on this for those scratching their heads. Basically, if Frank would like to take it to that step, and classify us as BF’s that he would just need to put a collar on me with a name. Granted he said something about the Toto collar, and I told him, if that is the name he wants to call his pup, then it can be that. The Toto collar is for the costume for Dallas at end of this month when we go down. So, if Frank wants to take this to the next step, he just has to present me with a collar that I could wear nearly all the time. Be it a day collar, or a small chain collar. He can even have actual dog tag attached to it with the name he wants to call this pup. Yes, I am a wolf not a dog, but the collar shows others that I am owned by someone else. Not like this pup has been playing since Frank came along. For some reason I stopped playing about 5 weeks ago, he has been the only one I have played with. Even when he was out of town and he said something about the pup going out to play, I tentatively had plans but decided against it. Now, those who read the blog before the re-vamp, know, I let the other decide on where they want to take things. Would I like to go to the next level with Frank, sure, would not mind at all. Could I remain as we are, just having fun, or as some put it Friends with benefits, sure.

Some people might think that I giving him a gift 2 weeks into it would be a bad move. Well, I was out with my Mother and niece and saw that there were a lot of stuff on clearance for Transformers, and thought of Frank and what he said about Bubblebee. Frank being the gamer/geek he is, wanted a transformable Bubblebee for his birthday and his bother got him the statue of him instead. Well, seeing the stuff marked down, I looked around for a transformable one for him. I found this one that not only was transformable but had sounds, moved and was a nice unit. And saw it was marked down 60%, I thought what the hell, he’ll either kill me, or never speak to me again, or at least I get a nice petting out of the deal…  Could I have bought it and set it in the closet and waited to give it to him, sure. But I am not like that. It was more of a friendly “hey they really wanted this and I found it for them, I’ll pick it up” kind of a thing, plus I thought it would make him happy. Which, I come to find out it was the one he was going to buy for himself but held off for a bit due to other things going to need replaced. So, yea, made him happy.

Now the Dallas trip is 2 weeks away and I really need to get on this diet, maybe hit the gym (since I am paying for it) to kind of look good for Frank while we are down there.

OK, enough of my ranting, back to work I go…

I know it’s been a while since I did one of these so here we go again, plus I know it’s late in the week for it.

1. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep?
Cuddle then fall asleep

2. Have you ever fake orgasms?
How can men? I mean really, a bit hard to don’t ya think? Spit won’t work to well.

3. In any 24 hour period, what is the most number of time you have ever had sex?
Well, that’s a trick question, depends on your definition of sex. Meaning orgasms’ – 4-5 times, mean penetration that is a bit higher number, and if you mean just playing – does constantly count?

4. Have you ever had sex or give/received oral sex while you were driving a car?
Received while driving, not gave while driving, that is dangerous. Gave handjob while driving though. Gave while passenger, and just talked about giving again here soon too which I am looking forward to.

5. What do you think the average number of sexual partners your sex has in their lifetime (so for me a male)? Do you think most people lie when asked?
Depends on straight or gay for one. I know some men 2K-3K and they are in their mid to late 30’s. Others can count them on one hand. For normal guy’s combining straight and gay guys I think the normal average is about 20 or so. And staights will prob lie more than gays on number of partners. But most, prob will if asked.

OK, been a while since last update. Nearly 3 weeks of fun and such has happened, so lets get updating.

Work is still a killer, work work work. I was supposed to go camping on the weekend of the 21st, BUT, after finding out certain humans were going to be there, I decided to not to go. I was told by Mark, I would not let others dictate where and when I can go. And my response was, I know what I am capable of and do not what to test my shakey control as it is. So, another reason was that Frank was going out of town the weekend after that and he was in town that weekend, SOOO, that was a nice bonus to staying home. I did take and get some shopping done on Friday while I was visiting my family. In the items I bought was something for Frank, something he mentioned one night while we were talking. He really liked it of course, he was surprised I remembered it. And I even got the one version he thought of getting. And before you go dirty, it was something for his shelfs.

Last weekend, I basically stayed home, watched TV, and thats about it for Friday and Saturday. Sunday I had to go to my family’s again for my nieces birthday party. Frank was out of town and was flying in on Sunday night, and since I had the car (got to love Zipcar), I told him I would pick him up instead of taking the slow train back. I left my family, and got to the airport about 30-40 minutes before his plane was to land, and saw the plane was actually a bit early by about 20 minutes. So, not being in the larger of the airports here in town, in over 15 years, I just headed to the baggage claim area for his flight. I sat there for a bit and got a text from him he was down. We met up, and I drove us home.

So, Frank and I are spending time together both week nights and weekend. Just having a good time with him.

I was reading in one magazine they had a small chart regarding the different sub’s and the good, bad and good for’s. On the puppy – the good was “loyal” bad was “needy”, and the good for “fetching beers”. I found this to be kind of true. So, I guess I have to work on not being so “needy” then. The fetching beers I’m pretty good at already…