As for the way I operate, I am a submissive in majority of everything I do. I obey, sometimes act up but majority of the time I obey. I am 80-90% bottom, but if my handler says he wants me to fuck him, then I obey and do it, not for dominance, but for him cause he wants me to do it. If my handler wants me to tie him up, flog/whip him, or even piss on him, this is again not an dominance thing for me due to being a Protective Wolfpup, now a regular, or alpha pup its different, but for a Protective, we are the ones that the lowest on the totem as dominance goes, and first in the front lines to fight for the pack.

I go on the reactive/defensive stand on things. I don’t really approach people for things, if they come to me thats fine. If I am with one or many in a playing situation, I remain close and if they want me to join them, I wait for them to signal or reach over to me to start. Otherwise I stay in guard/protect mode and not approach anyone. I do leave the decision making up to the other(s) of where they want to go with things as well. It’s up to them where they want to go with this, friends, more than friends, friends with benefits, or go take a flying leap. They are the Dom/Handler/Sir after all. Now don’t get me wrong I am not a “victim” in this, if it is what I would like, I will let them know I agree and we continue on. Not like a guy can just walk up and say, we getting married, and I go along with it without question. I do have standards, in physical and mental.

With being a Protective Wolfpup, I like to know what is going on all of the time, so something comes up, I know it is normal and not worry about it. That is why I like to be kept in the loop of what is going on. Let me know what to expect and I am content, regardless of what the info is. Not having the info and getting blindsided by something is not a good thing.

I think this is why I get a lot of people think I am a top. I do appear to be an Alpha, and by rights I should. The Protector is the one that should be targeted by the enemy to give the alpha time to flank and attack. And yes, you can ask a few of my Handlers that I have played with that I do have this challenging quality, but when push comes to shove (take the pun anyway you want.. lol) I do back off and submit.

Now, with all of this, this puts me in an out in the cold a lot of times. People don’t know how to take me, and either give up, or just move on to someone better looking/etc. Being left out in the cold, and not knowing what is going on, is not doing my job of protecting and it throws me into a depression. And that makes me a failure in my job, and can’t be happy in something you are a failure at.

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